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Title: Losing a family member
Post by: Deerhunter21 on February 16, 2022, 07:51:45 pm
We are putting my oldest dog Lily down tomorrow. She was my first and oldest friend and got me through a lot. This is really hard. I knew this day would come but I’m still not ready for her to go. I’m going to miss her so much.
Title: Re: Losing a family member
Post by: jimmi the sammi on February 16, 2022, 08:08:56 pm
One of the toughest things one has to do in life, Russell.  Always a heart breaker.  I have had many dogs in my 71 years.  When it was time for them to go, whether early or late in their lives, it was and is always hard.  Best remedy for that empty feeling is ...... a new puppy believe it or not.  Doesn't take the place of the old one, nothing ever does, but a new one brings a new partner into your life with new adventures and partnership.
Title: Re: Losing a family member
Post by: bjrogg on February 16, 2022, 08:40:32 pm
When I was a kid I was afraid of dogs. We got a small dog and our whole family fell in love with him. Rex was a perfect companion for a young boy on a farm. We did everything together. We lived a mile from the county gravel pit and trucks would go by every couple minutes when they were hauling gravel. I remember we were play ball on the front lawn when Rex went to chase the gravel truck and got hit. I can still see it over 50 years later.

I agree. You can’t replace them, but you can fall in love with another one and they can make another perfect companion. I know some  people are so hurt they just don’t want to go through the loss again, but I’m not one of them. I say get another one. And as sad as it is to say it probably won’t be your last.

I’ve had and lost a lot of good companions over the years.

I’ve lost a lot of good friends to. They all hurt, but their good memories are never lost.

Bjrogg
Title: Re: Losing a family member
Post by: Piddler on February 16, 2022, 09:10:37 pm
Don't know who originally said this but I'll Quote "If there was any justice in the world dogs would live longer"
We feel your pain Russel, it's hard and heart breaking.
Piddler
Title: Re: Losing a family member
Post by: bjrogg on February 16, 2022, 09:31:53 pm
Piddler I’ve said it before, but it seems fitting to say it again now. I love your life’s goal

Bjrogg
Title: Re: Losing a family member
Post by: Parnell on February 17, 2022, 09:49:46 am
Just seeing this Russel.  It really is one of life's most difficult tasks.  I don't have much to say that these fellas haven't said, but, I understand.  My thoughts go out to you.
Title: Re: Losing a family member
Post by: Pat B on February 17, 2022, 10:17:39 am
Our thoughts are with you and your family today, Russell. I've shared all my life with many fine dogs(and a couple of cats) and have had to go through this many times and believe me it never gets easier. We take on raising our pets and it is our duty to deal with the hard times like this when the time comes. It doesn't make it easier but just remember all the good times and it will bring back a smile to your face. 
Title: Re: Losing a family member
Post by: Stoker on February 17, 2022, 02:43:11 pm
My thoughts are with you. Never an easy time. They are a part of our lives and family. It's the memories of the good times helps me get through the rough parts.
Thanks Leroy
Title: Re: Losing a family member
Post by: Deerhunter21 on February 17, 2022, 06:16:12 pm
Thank you all for the kind words guys. I really miss her badly, but my parents said she went peacefully and happily. They said it was like when she falls asleep out in the summer sun and that’s all I could have asked for.

RIP Lily
Title: Re: Losing a family member
Post by: PaSteve on February 17, 2022, 08:12:12 pm
Condolences for you and your family, Russell. Nothing more that I can say that hasn't already been mentioned above. RIP Lily
Title: Re: Losing a family member
Post by: BowEd on February 18, 2022, 07:26:48 am
Condolences to you to you and your family.It's tough.Good that the suffering is reduced.It's like a hole is left there.Life must move on though.Filling it again takes time with new experiences.
I've had many a dog.For the yard and for hunting.The good times are never forgotten.
Title: Re: Losing a family member
Post by: bjrogg on February 18, 2022, 07:37:31 am
Thought about you two a lot yesterday Russell.

Bjrogg
Title: Re: Losing a family member
Post by: Pappy on February 18, 2022, 08:05:41 am
So sorry Russell, been there done that many times, sad day for sure. :(  I have had many good dogs over the years and always wondered why they can't live as long as i do but that just ant the case,I hope to see them all again someday. :) I always say I am not getting another but i always do and even though they don't take the place, they do help relieve the sadness.  :)
Pappy
Title: Re: Losing a family member
Post by: Gimlis Ghost on February 18, 2022, 09:32:48 am
I've lost many dog friends over the years, but I'm glad that all lived long full lives and died peacefully.

At the present time I'm concerned for my ancient Egyptian Mau cat. They are a long lived breed but at 22 years old he is nearing his expiration date and had his first serious illness last year.

He is still underweight but lately has regained a few ounces and is strong and agile. I feel a strong connection with this old fellow mainly because he has always acted more like a dog than a cat, which is a common feature for this ancient breed.

The recent shortages of quality canned cat food has been a problem. He can no longer stomach his favorite dry catfood and they have stopped making the canned food he always loved.
After much experimentation I've found a couple of substitutes that seem to agree with him. I've also begun giving him a little "Catsip", a sort of baby formula for kittens and older cats.
Title: Re: Losing a family member
Post by: Pat B on February 18, 2022, 10:33:45 am
Gimlls, we had a cat(Lawrence) that lived to be 25 years. He found my wife when he was a kitten, lived on the SC coast and moved to the mountains with us where he was king. He raised 6 dogs during his life and only went to the vet once, a year before he passed for dehydration. He only used a litter box his last year and usually overshot it then. Lawrence was a bad mombo jombo and ruled his kingdom until the end where he drifted off in his sleep one night.
 All of our animals have been special to us. It was sad when they left us but it brings a smile to my face every time I see a pic of them or get a random thought about them.
Title: Re: Losing a family member
Post by: bjrogg on February 18, 2022, 10:55:16 am
Like that commercial on TV where the cat is fetching the stick from the water.

Guy watching cat: Amazing

Owner: talks about his new truck.

Guy watching Cat: no the cat not the truck


Cat owner “what act like you Never seen a cat before”  . I like that one.

Right now we have my daughter’s part chow. She’s really good, but she knows it. Sometimes she acts a little like a cat.

Bjrogg
Title: Re: Losing a family member
Post by: Gimlis Ghost on February 18, 2022, 04:22:44 pm
Gimlls, we had a cat(Lawrence) that lived to be 25 years. He found my wife when he was a kitten, lived on the SC coast and moved to the mountains with us where he was king. He raised 6 dogs during his life

Mister Loki has always had a good relationship with dogs, in fact all our older cats have if the dog respected their space.
An old momma cat we had many years ago was likely half Mau, born of a Siamese mother, and she lived 24 years. She raised my Plot/Pit bear hound from a tiny puppy and taught him to fight like a cat, using his heavy fore paws as ranged weapons to knock much larger dogs senseless before they could close.
When she fell ill he guarded her day and night and when she could no longer walk he carried her gently in his huge jaws to her food bowl then back to her bed . He was truly heart broken when she passed.

Oddly female dogs appear to be attracted to Mr Loki as they would be to an alpha male dog and put on shameless displays of deference to his maleness.
The full blooded Mau doesn't have active scent glands and doesn't spray. Perhaps because he doesn't smell like a cat the female dogs mistake him for a male dog.

A historical note.
In ancient Egypt if someone killed a Mau cat belonging to your family you were legally allowed to cut off the killer's nose in vengence.