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aero86:
i am happy with her, its just the one thing i think she could do for herself..

Hillbilly:
She probably has a few things she could improve about you, too-but doesn't demand that you do them. I have been with a woman who smokes for sixteen years. Her mom is eighty-something and still smokes. :) And yes, it is too much to ask if it's a condition for a relationship. Sounds like someone has control issues. :)

mullet:
 This started out not  for her health but because you would like her to. If she says ,no, then will you still live with her and withold the prize of engagement? I smoked 3 packs a day when my wife and I met. She never asked me to quit. I new she didn't like it but there was never any "deals". I finally quit 25 years ago and the only thing she said was the clothes smell a lot nicer. We've been married for 33 years.
   Sorry, If I was your girlfriend I would be out the door. She worked out alright for two years it seems. To me it sounds like to me you don't want the commitment.

aero86:
not that i dont want the commitment.  she told me she would quit before she moved in with me.  shes told me 3 or four times she would quit.  i dont have control issues, i just dont like it when someone tells me something and doesnt do it. 

zenmonkeyman:
My wife quit smoking for me.  Then she gained a bunch of weight and became miserable.  Then she took up smoking again, and kept the weight anyways.  And she's still miserable.  That's how it played out for us!

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