Did you temper that belly? Tempered mhickory will rarely, if ever, fret on you. Try tempering it into reflex. It will add 15# and allow you to scrape below the frets you have now.....................hopefully!
yeah I did.   Not sure if I did it right though.  Maybe I just scorched the surface 

  Could try again.   I did put some reflex into it too.  got about  4 or 5 more lbs then started sanding and thought I was sanding "tool marks" then dropped the dang thing by 7 lbs.  ...I got a little carried away with a little too much elbow grease.  some of those frets are pretty deep 

.   Got nothing to lose now I guess.  that was one of my very best board staves too... 

     I'm definately NOT sending a bow out unless its the very best I can do.