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eww. relationship thread..
mullet:
My last word of advice; if you think 4 and 6 is fun, just wait till 14 and 16. As far as monetarily, Mine are now 26 and 28, and I'm still paying. When you have children, they are your responsibility till the end. Also, JMO, If you had an issue with her promising to quit smoking after she moved in with you, and she didn't. Then you should have tossed her to the curb without waiting two years. You must have liked something she had been doing for two years, enough to ignore the cigarettes.
aero86:
That's why I feel I'm done having kids. She's good with my kids and she's a great girl. I'm not thinking about leaving because of the smoking, I was wondering how I should approach the subjects with her
Eric Krewson:
Be up front an honest and see where it goes. After I got divorced I met some great ladies but didn't want any more kids so I distanced myself from the ones who had a desire for children. I wasn't the right guy for them. I distanced myself from smokers as well because I knew I couldn't live with a smoker.
I ended up with a gal that didn't smoke, didn't want any more kids(had three already grown), liked to hunt, shoot selfbows, fish, cook, keep an immaculate house and loved romance. We celebrated our 25th anniversary a couple weeks ago.
Bottom line, I knew what I wanted in a woman and didn't try to kid myself into thinking I could tolerate someone who didn't meet my expectations.
Tsalagi:
Well, she can't smoke while she's pregnant. Seems one problem finds its own solution, what? ;D
Grunt:
After 63 winters I have found that women drive men crazy and men drive women crazy. Good knowing everybody's crazy, you can excuse a lot of behavior.
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